Plunge in. Act. Choose comfort or courage – you can’t have both.
If the dream you have means something to you it will bring up resistance and fear. Resistance comes up in relation to the importance of the dream in your soul.
First comes the dream – then up pops up the resistance automatically. Please don’t blame yourself. It’s a dragon that guards the gold.
How to overcome this sabotage and paralyzing experience? To supersede resistance you need to make a decision. There’s no magic drink. It’s a decision. A choice. Just know that the dragon that is guarding your dream and fear are both self-created.
Stop running, stop resisting. Turn and face it. When you face it – it vaporizes and disappears. Confront fear and resistance head on.
Specifically I suggest you sit down and write to take the onus off the resistance.
Another option is to just move forward. Notice the resistance and take action anyway. Instead start the business. Or make the arrangements to go on the trip you dream of. Do something proactive and you’ll see the resistance is an illusion designed to stop you from achieving your dream, and your dream is really a divine plan for your life. Nike had it right with the slogan “Just Do It.”
Most of us live two lives. The life we live and the unlived life. Between our current life and our unlived dream life breeds resistance. What keeps us from doing what we desire is resistance.
We feel the most resistance when we’re about to grow spiritually and about to dare greatly. Resistance is a negative force that stand ups and stands between us and our dream when we choose to move from a lower to a higher life level. For example when we choose marriage, commitment, entrepreneurship, relationships, fitness, releasing addiction, or any endeavor that’s meaningful to you.
When we succumb to resistance and stop pursuing our dream we then feel pain because when we don’t pursue our calling. Everyone has a calling and a purpose, even if it’s a secret kept in your heart. It’s who you are, who you become. Never give up. Find your grit and will.
When adversity arises, an novice folds. A rookie yields to obstacles and gives in. A professional however plays for keeps. Amateurs run, sabotage themselves and blow up their life. A professional commits full time to their dream and their goal. He/she is fully in. That’s when you get magic. The tail wind comes to aid you. Surprising miracles show up.
Look inside yourself and acknowledge that the dream is in your heart. It’s already in your soul. You can do this. Be fully in.
Debbi Dachinger is a Media Personality. Her specialties are: Radio & TV Show Hosting, Spokesperson, Bestselling Author, Goal Achievement Expert, Frequent Interview Guest, Keynote Speaker, and Radio Coach (Teaches A-Z How To Be Interviewed and Get Booked On Right Shows, also How to Host Your Own Show).
DEBBI DACHINGER believes that when you pursue and create your dreams you positively change your life and shift the world. As a Media Personality who teaches that you were born with a unique gift and point of view that is of value, she leads popular and exceptional Teleseminar classes on “RADIO BOOTCAMP: How to Booked on the Radio and Be Exquisite while On Air,” also “Be a Self-Published, International Bestselling Author,” and “Create Your Dreams Now: The 5 Pillars To Achieve Dreams Anytime.” Debbi is the author of the highly acclaimed, award-winning international bestsellers, DARE TO DREAM: This Life Counts -and- WISDOM TO SUCCESS: The Surefire Secrets to Accomplish All Your Dreams – considered must-reads for our changing times. A popular media guest and speaker, Debbi has been interviewed on more than 600 radio and TV shows. She was the keynote at the Women’s Calgary Red Carpet event; and was invited to present at the prestigious Los Angeles Conscious Life Expo as well as San Francisco’s New Living Expo in the Study of Achieving Dreams, along with distinguished speakers including Marianne Williamson. Debbi consults visionary leaders and senior executives in the world’s foremost companies to go beyond “obstacles” and limits of their thinking – accelerating results and catapulting spectacular successes. Clients have included corporations, as well as entrepreneurs, managers, students, celebrities and evolutionaries worldwide. Debbi is an original visionary and one of the thought-leaders of today, a leading authority for a “new view of accomplishing your dream.” Debbi’s award-winning, syndicated “DARE TO DREAM” Radio show boasts 1 million listeners on 65 stations. She has received awards for: Editor’s Pick: Featured Intriguing Creator, Broadcasting Industry Lifetime Achievement Award, Inducted into the Who’s Who Hall of Fame for Entertainment, and is in the documentary film “Girl’s Rule,” as well as “Rising Above the Myths of Aging” an is a regular featured contributor to Published Magazine. Debbi believes that recognition is important and happiness is essential. Debbi believes that we are each meant to shine our light and fulfill our divine path. If that sounds like a leader you’d like to work with send Debbi an email for an appointment: http://debbidachinger.com